She changed her name and gave birth to a fourth child: how does Valya Isaeva live, who became a mother at 11 years old15.09.2022
Children do not suffer much that their father is not at home. Amina, for example, did not have a relationship with her parent. She defended her mother several times when a man raised his hand to her. And Amir felt his father’s anger and physical punishment.
So they support the mother’s decision and help her in every possible way. Amina was supposed to go to 11th grade in September, but she had to pick up her documents from school. Now she sits with her brothers while her mother looks for work. The sons went to school, but it was very difficult to collect them.
“I am not ashamed. I cannot send my child to school with peace of mind – there is no way to buy stationery, new shoes. Money for food. I don’t want to ask for money, I go for interviews, looking for a job, ”Valya admits.
Forgiving her husband, even if he comes and falls at his feet, she is no longer going to. And he believes that a new life will begin soon. And Valya dreams of starting it with the name Muslim. And so that no one would think that in the Tajik manner, she explains: she is a Muslim by birth.
“ Before her death, my grandmother told me for the first time that my parents were Ingush and I was born in Ingushetia. And they called me Valya so that there were no questions, ”she concluded.