He, she and mistress: relationships that destroy women and inspire men05.09.2022
If the mistress of a married man truly falls in love with him and begins to draw ideal pictures of a joint future for herself, forgetting about the presence of a wife and children, then she can suffer very much. The biggest risk is to lose that resource that cannot be replaced by anything, the resource that determines everything we do and how we live – time. A woman can hope for years that her status will change, even if she claims out loud that she does not need anything from her beloved man, except for himself.
She sincerely believes that the man she loves will take the most important step for her. He would have done it long ago, because he was so tired of the vixen-wife, it’s just that the “vixen” has diabetes, a sick heart or a tendency to suicide (underline as necessary), and the children again. He, as a decent person, simply cannot do this to them and leave them without a mother, otherwise he would have left long ago.
However, the statistics are relentless: if a man decides to leave, then most often this happens in the first year and a half from the moment the relationship began. Endorphin love helps a man take this step, although sometimes people create a common space even after 10 years of secret relationships. However, this is more the exception than the rule.